June 29, 2010
Our day off!!
4:30-5:30 a.m. - Nori wakes up, try to soothe back to sleep
5:30-7:00 a.m. - play Play-Doh and watch Finding Nemo
7:00-8:00 a.m. - breakfast, play toys, shower
8:00-9:30 a.m. - pack beach bag and load cooler with berries, watermelon, & cheese
9:30-10:30 a.m. - get lost looking for beach, don't have phone, stop to ask directions
10:30-12:45 p.m. - BEACH! Do splits, splash, dig, chase fish, and have picnic
1:00-3:00 p.m. - nap, glorious nap
3:00-5:00 p.m. - play chalk, Oomie car, chase outside with Estelle and walk Dorothy
5:00-5:30 p.m. - prep and eat supper
5:30-7:15 p.m. - dancing, music, coloring, bath, books and bedtime
June 27, 2010
"hy-nenas in the pwidelands"
If you have never spent an entire weekend watching the Lion King on an old VHS cassette, dancing to the soundtrack (purchased in 1994), discussing the plot, using play therapy to deal with the mature topics, and then reenacting the movie with dogs as "hy-nenas", then you just haven't lived. I like to think of it as a mini safari without the side effects of malaria pills. Plus, everyone in the house now sings in falsetto "When I was a young warthog...when he was a young warthoooog!!!!"
What else? Oh, lets see: Gramsie was here on Thursday but then we kicked her out, Friday we picked up Jake from the airport and took our picnic lunch to the Como Zoo and later ordered Pizza Luce, Saturday we exercised, purchased lots of organic fruit, veggies, dairy, eggs, chicken and beef plus hosted a mostly vegetarian meal for Aunt Ellen, today Hol & Papa Michael visited before heading home, we went to Bloom and then out to lunch at Hoa Bien (awesome Vietnamese) with friends Joel & Rachael. How's that for a run on sentence?
Did I mention that we should be at the U2 concert right this very minute but no, Bono had to get hurt. Maybe he should take off his sunglasses and look where he is going...
June 24, 2010
What to do?
In 20 years the government might realize that these issues exist but right now it is not "proven" and it is big busine$$ during a difficult economy. Can I afford to wait to see if an official ban or regulations happen down the road? Not really. So, we are trying to stay rational while making some changes that help us avoid toxic chemicals.
FOOD
Remember when all you had to do was look for nutritious and preservative-free? Or in my mom's case, go to the drive-thru at Taco John's? Now, we try to buy organic for the dirty dozen, especially berries and grapes, but still use regular milk & eggs. I might start with organic milk for Nori, since she is such a milk fiend but it is really spendy. Sometimes our meat is antibiotic & hormone-free but not always. I don't think daycare does organic at all, neither does our family or most restaurants and you know how I love a meal I did not cook...
COOKING & STORAGE
We just decided to throw out our great Emeril Teflon pans and replace them with stainless steel mainly because we just don't spend enough time doing dishes. Two years back, we bought glass storage contains but lots of disposable plastics still sneak into the fridge, at least we don't nuke them. Did you know that Jake's awesome ribs are cooked in Saran wrap? That can't be good!
BODY CARE
New research shows that most common suncreens contain oxybenzone and other hormone disruptors that can cause negative effects on the body. We are ditching the Coppertone in favor of more organic types of sunscreen... I heard Badger Face is good? What about shampoos, cosmetics, soaps, bug sprays? Aye de mi.
LAWN
Easy, what lawn? Jake recently had the brilliant idea to let the dandelions and creeping charlie duke it out to see which weed would win. We don't use fertilizers but most of our neighbors do and it all goes back into the water.
PLASTICS
All the BPA warnings came out when Nori was 3 months old so it was not until then that we switched bottles to Born-Free but I worry now about all the plastic sippy cups (even though they are BPA-free) -what other chemicals from the plastic are leaching out?
CLEANING
I love me some Soft Scrub. Oh, Scrubbing Bubbles how you clean my shower. But, I think I might try some of the greener options or god forbid, make my own.
It's scary. Who knows exactly why the rates of our health issues are rising (cancer, autism, ADHD, infertility, frizzy hair). Next thing you, know I will find out the secret to the MBT shoe is their asbestos sole.
Check out the President's Cancer Panel - Recommendations:
- Children are far more susceptible to environmental carcinogens than adults. Foods, home, play spaces, and toys should all be chosen to minimize exposure to toxics.
- Drink filtered tap water over bottled water.
- Store water in stainless steel, glass, or BPA free containers. This will reduce exposure to endocrine-disrupting chemicals that leach into water from plastics and decrease need for plastic bottles.
- Microwave food and beverages in ceramic or glass instead of plastic to reduce exposure to endocrine-disrupting chemicals that may leach into food when containers are heated.
- Eat free-range meat raised without medications to decrease exposure to antibiotics, growth hormones, and toxic runoff.
- Avoid consuming of processed, charred, and well-done meats to reduce exposure to carcinogenic amines and polyaromatic hydrocarbons.
- Properly dispose of pharmaceuticals, household chemicals, paints, and other materials to minimize water and soil contamination.
- Turn off lights and electrical devices when not in use to reduce exposure to petroleum combustion by-products by reducing need for electricity.
- Reduce exposure to electromagnetic energy by wearing headset when using a cell phone, texting instead of calling, and keeping calls brief.
- Periodically check home radon levels.
- Wear protective clothing and sunscreens when outdoors and avoid exposure when sunlight is most intense to reduce overexposure to ultraviolet light.
DISCLAIMER: I am not a scientist, I just play one on my blog.
June 22, 2010
Oh, child
- eating watermelon (the seeds and drips were the end of the world)
- peeing on the potty
- wearing a diaper (it hurts the "doo doo"?)
- obeying
- taking a nap
- staying in bed
- staying out of the closet during nap
- staying in time out
- apologizing
- coloring only on paper
- keeping Play-Doh on the table
- not touching the television
- not standing on the laptop
- not "decorating" the house with water from a sippy cup
June 21, 2010
Welcome Baby Esme!!
June 20, 2010
Road trip
After dropping Tone Loc Jr. off with her grandparents, we made it to Jana & Tyler's reception at the Raccoon Nature Lodge. Quite a year of firsts for Jake: not only did he get to help the bride with hair & make-up and serve as flower girl at the last wedding, this time he had the honor of helping decorate, arrange flowers, and prepare food. It's okay, he's part gay (the top part).
It was wonderful to see them married as well as all the photos from their beach side ceremony in Maui, they have come so far on their journey together! Congratulations Molstres!
A special note to all dads out there, Happy Father's Day, especially Jake, Bill Pal, Papa Michael, FIL Steve and my surrogate father, Andy Ho. After Norelle's awesome time in Winona and brief stint at Good Earth Village camp, we all met up in Austin to celebrate Father's Day with Grandpa Dick and Grandpa Steve. Upon returning home, Nori gave Jake presents: a watercolor, handmade bookmark, homeade fishing pole, new sports socks and underwear. He earned a make-up day next week when he can relax without driving all day.
June 18, 2010
I've got an itch...
So Nori & I were talking about what we want to do with our lives and we decided, in lieu of a vision board, to begin with a list of short-term goals for our days off. Here is our motivation to get out of bed, have a sippy of milky, put on a Pull-Up, and head out the door.
BTB, has this ever happened to you? Your mom treating your blog as her only form of entertainment, leaving menacing comments on your blog to step it up, making you feel like a piece of meat, only worthy of love when you earn it? Oh, it's just me...
June 17, 2010
why do you even bother?
Waiting for Jake to get home from Chicago (his flight was delayed) while packing for a wedding weekend. I've also been helping my brother try to figure out his financial aid as he gets through his final year of undergrad again (second degree). Paying for an education is obscene, I think my grad school loans will be paid off 18 months, hallelujah! For many today the debt will not be recouped by the salaries which does not seem right. In my worldly travels, I learned college in NZ is free to all kiwis and only take three years leaving time for travel abroad after uni. Plus, they totally have penguins.
See what I mean? You already stopped reading...
June 16, 2010
June 13, 2010
SoS Headlines
Husband leaving for Chicago, hoping he can make some extra cash with sweaty feet
Attempt to score $2 tanks (integral part of my summer uniform) at Old Navy unsuccessful, should have known store opened at 7:00 a.m. not 10:00 a.m.
Memorable Twins game in new stadium, family enjoys Dippin' Dots in misty outfield
Fav sites as of late:
- Local coupon guru, Pocket Your Dollars
- Finally, Jana's reception
- As always, DListed
June 09, 2010
June 05, 2010
The Reluctant Ring Bearer
You probably already knew this but it's still winter in Duluth. Well, every three hours it's summer for about five minutes, then it rotates through the seasons pausing on fog, rainstorms, and cold wind the longest. We arrived here yesterday to help Tasha & LeRoy celebrate their nuptials. To say people around here responsible for this wedding weren't stressed would be a lie. Seems hosting a backyard union in the mud with world's crabbiest pastor will do that.
Today was the big day! Tasha has played an instrumental role in our lives and in creating our family so we really wanted to be here for this. She truly deserves only the best. LeRoy is a responsible, caring guy who also treats Tasha's daughter, Alice, like his own daughter. We are really happy they have found each other and can create their own new family. Everyone here treated us so warmly, even new relatives we had not yet met. No small gesture given the very unique nature of our relationship.
Our little Norelle was overwhelmed by all the commotion and new faces so her participation was limited to bribes and tricks to get her in the right place at the right time. In fact, my husband became an honorary bridesmaid as he helped Nori down the aisle during the ceremony. If only he had worn his pearls...
While we thoroughly enjoyed the 3.5 hour drive from Saint Paul to LeRoys' family farm, 1 hour back to our hotel (got lost), 1 hour to Cloquet to dress, .5 hour into town for photos, 1 hour back to our hotel, .5 to the farm, .5 hour back to hotel and 3 hours yet to travel with an overtired girl screeching for various Bob Marley songs, we are ready to get home. You know that old wedding cliche that states the two keys to a happy marriage are 1) having a good sense of humor and 2) a short memory? Well, that adage works for a lot of things...
June 02, 2010
Can't keep true love down!

It must be June again because that is when the invisible rooster crows every morning at 5:00 a.m. causing a little girl to joyfully thud around her room, then later sit at the foot of our steps singing baby tunes. Her circadian rhythms are in tune with mother earth and she must make the most of every single minute of daylight. Yes, we have room darkening shades to block the light and fan on to mute the birds but she shall not be tricked by modern technology when her soul must awaken at dawn. It is the way it always has been and always shall be…
One of the first things she said to me this morning (after “can I have some milllllky?”) was “ that little dude is FUNKY” which I *just* realized is a quote from Happy Feet (we watched it two months ago). Her memory is really sharp! Nori had a case of Dorotho-rhea last night which required Jake & I to acted as a pit crew, swooping in to change diapers every so often causing minimal disruptions to her sleep-pooping slumber. Nothing a little yogurt and Desitin can’t cure!
While we are so not ready to have another baby yet, I have thought of perfect name! I may not have the emotional or physical energy for a newborn but I feel the need to rush into another child just so no one else uses this name first. Good logic? I am not really sure if Jake likes the name that well but no matter, it’s my body (er…) so I make the calls. The best part of this name is that it would be perfect for a girl or a boy. Unfortunately, we are having having a grand old time being a happy family of three so I will just have to hold out hope that no Kardashian-Bushes enter the world with my new favorite name in the meantime.


